99% of people are not willing to do what it takes to make their dreams come true the Marines have a saying everybody wants to go to heaven but nobody wants to die the center of bringing any dream into fruition is self-discipline you know something something as simple as food and eating it is not about your body as much.
As it is about your mind it’s getting command of your mind to be able to choose actions that are.
In your own best interest every day we are choosing Shh that’s not in our own best interest so if the world is attacking you and the world wants to.
Fight you and the world’s trying to hold you down so you’re gonna kick yourself in the balls so you will stop yourself from getting what you dream and I think the word discipline has kind of gotten a bad name we think about it in terms of punishment I’m not talking about discipline in that way I’m talking about discipline in the sense that you.
You forego immediate pleasure for the exchange of long term self-respect I believe that self-discipline is the definition of self-love that when you say that you love yourself that means that you have behavior towards yourself that is loving self-discipline is Center of all material success you cannot win the war against the world if you can’t win the war against your own mind self-love is when you say to yourself man look I know you and that girl got a real connection I know.
Y’all vibe but that’s your girl’s cousin.
So I love you too much to let you do that it’s like you say to yourself a man look I know you want to eat that pizza and it’ll be really good you know but I can’t let you.
Eat that man cuz if you eat that pizza you gonna feel like you know and I just I love you too much to let you eat that self-love is a look I know you got a a test on Monday you know and I know you really want to go out with your friends a Saturday night you want.
To go out but if you fail that test you’re not gonna feel good about yourself you know I just I love you too much to let you go out tonight self discipline isn’t self-love if you wanna be happy you have to love yourself which means you have to discipline your.
Behavior the road sustained happiness is through disciplining your behavior we tend to base our self-esteem on what other people think and that’s not really self-esteem self-esteem is supposed to be how we feel about ourselves and I was just saying how dangerous it.
Is to allow other people to determine how – feel about youth and it’s kind of like looking into a broken mirror you’re gonna look at.
A broken mirror and then change your face to try to look good in this defiled busted broken mirror and it just other people’s opinions there’s a really way to.
Determine how we feel about our seventh it don’t matter whose fault it is that something is broken if it’s your responsibility to fix it for example is it’s not somebody’s fault if their father was an abusive alcoholic but.
It’s for damn sure their responsibility to figure out how they’re gonna do with those traumas.
And try to make a life out of it it’s not your fault if your partner cheated and ruined your marriage but.
It is for damn sure your responsibility to figure out how to take that pain and how to overcome that and build a happy life for yourself fault and responsibility do not.
Go together it sucks but they don’t when something is somebody’s fault we want them to suffer we want them punished we want them to pay we want it to be their responsibility.
To fix it but that’s that’s not how it works especially when it’s your heart your heart your life.
Your happiness is your responsibility and your responsibility alone as long as we’re pointing the finger and stuck.
In whose fault something is weird am and trap into victim mode when you’re in victim mode you’re stuck and suffering the road to power is in taking responsibility your heart your life your happiness.
Is your responsibility and your responsibility alone you can make a person smile you can make a person feel good you can make a person laugh but whether or not a person is happy is deeply and totally and.
Utterly out of your control the prerequisite for spending time with any person is that they nourish and inspire you they feed your flame look at your last five text messages are those people feeding your flames or dousing your fire put your phone down.
For just a second and look around look to the people around you are those people throwing.
Logs on your fire or they pissing on it I want my life I want my my work my family I wanted to mean something and it’s like it has if you are not making someone else’s life.
Better then you’re wasting your time the separation of talent and skill is one of the.
The the greatest misunderstood concepts for people who are trying to excel who.
Have dreams that want to do things talent you have naturally skill is only developed by hours and hours and hours of beating on your craft you don’t try to build a wall.
You don’t set out to build a wall you don’t.
Say I’m the biggest baddest greatest wall that’s ever been built you don’t start there you say I’m gonna lay this brick as perfectly as a brick can be laid there will not be one written on the face of the earth that’s gonna be late better than this brick think I’m gonna lay in this next 10 minutes and you do that every single day and so you and soon you have a wall and I think psychologically the advantage that that gives me over.
Over a lot of people that I have been in competition with in different situations is it’s difficult to take the first.
Step when you look how big the task the definition of Who I am is very clear to me and it also redefines who I want to be in that I know for a fact that I’m stronger than I thought I was you.
Know you can’t help but ask yourself the question what would I do if I was in Mohammed Aileen shoes I’m motivated by fear I hate scare the piss and I think what developed in my early days was the in attitude that I started attacking things I was scared why were you scared in your bed.
The night before why did you what do you need that fear for just don’t go why are you scared in your bed 16 hours before you jump why are you scared in the car why could you not enjoy breakfast fear is fear of what you’re nowhere near the airplane if we think up to the stepping out there’s.